It Can Happen

In life bad, unfortunate, sad, unavoidable things happen. Some people never recover and get lost in the shuffle of life. Then there are the people who bounce back, better than before. Pessimist , naysayers, and people who believe they are the end all be all find it hard to believe that people who bounce back, couldn't, can't and don't. They convince themselves of this because it helps them sleep at night ,and it makes them feel better about themselves. They have to keep telling themselves you are nothing, nobody, sad, hurt and festering because it's the only way to justify their mess, when the reality of it, your life and the blessings are pouring in so...that your hands and heart is full. It doesn't matter if they have to lie to themselves, they need it, and they will replay it to themselves and regurgitate it to others because they believe it can't happen. It can happen! I am always in awe of the resilience found when you decide to pick up the piece of your life, trust God and live well. He is a keeper. People like this, know, no inner peace...that's what they go on smear campaigns, they are the equivalent to dirty politicians. Always wanting to present an innocent, trustworthy appearance...all the while they are having affairs and fathering children outside their marriage, stealing money, paying folks off to disparage and take down their perceived (in their mind) opponent. Some people will believe they hold your happiness in their hands. You make your own happiness by trust GOD!


So don't fall for the smoke and mirrors folks. There is only so much foolishness one can take. It's funny how the moment you light their asses up, they lay down like an innocent lamb....PLEASE NO ONE IS BUYING IT! Their hands are still dirty to this day. It's not until they are in jeopardy of losing their teeth and having their wig snapped back and their dirty laundry aired that the song and dance changes. They will try and convince folks you are mad, hurt, sad and upset , when the truth of the matter is they know nothing about you or your life.They will push and push and push you, because they want you to snap. They want you to lose your cool so they can point the finger and say "see".They want you to fulfill all those stereotypes we have come to know and not like. They will be quick to tell people "See the babymomma this or the babydaddy was acting like...
Move along folks, no show to see here...I am way to classy, beautiful and dignified to give you that. But there are people who like a show, and while I am a showgirl...I won't allow anyone who is desperate to make me degrade myself.

It's always amazing to me when people project their mess onto you. They want you to assimilate and "get with their program" because it's what they want. It does not interest me, and I actually find it very selfish when people do that. I know what I have is invaluable and folks would do anything to get it...and they just very well may make into forth place....but they will never have my spot, EVER. When you play dirty and try to win unfairly, when caught you get disqualified.

So to all my people in the struggle and caught up in the fray...IT CAN HAPPEN. People will portray you as a quitter, sad, a loser, unhappy,...but you know who you are and most importantly God knows who you are. Tell those unfortunate souls to hold hands.........huddle close......then jump off a bridge LMBO!

*It is my personal opinion that the use of the word Babymomma or Babydaddy is one of the most  degrading, stereotypical, idiotic things people can use as part of their vocabulary. It is also my opinion that if you have ever used it to reference someone in a disparaging way you are not only disrespectful but part of the cancer of this society.